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Don't: Feel Pressure“Dirty talk” is perhaps a misnomer, because bedroom banter doesn’t have to be crude to be a turn-on.
“Some people find cursing to be completely un-arousing,” says Neustifter.
“On top of that, you’re arousing him even more, because he’s thinking, ‘Yes!
I’m turning her on.’ That makes him feel more confident.” We call that a win-win.
A better route: Talk about how firm his erection is.) doesn’t mean you know which words will put you both in the mood.“Women feel silly talking dirty,” says Jaiya, a sex educator and author of .“Start by sending dirty text messages back and forth,” suggests Ruth Neustifter, Ph. “This is a great way to figure out what words he likes.” Your line: “I can’t to see you tonight.Tell me all the places you want me to touch you.” He’ll use the words he finds most erotic, helping you create your bedroom vocab.
Do: Master the Art of One-Word Dirty Talk Trying to string together a full, filthy sentence can actually tamp down your desire, since you’re inside your head, says Jaiya.